Wudu: Problems of Excitement

Question: Say brother X has a problem w/ madhy (pre-sexual fluid) and desire. He is married, and is easily excited. Once excited if even for a couple of minutes, madhy comes out intermittently for 1-2 hrs after the initial excitement. He can't pray during those 1-2 hrs w/o madhy coming out. What should he do if prayer time is running out?

Assalamu alaikum,

This is usually the “squeezies problem.” If one keeps checking oneself by squeezing, stuff will keep coming out, though nothing would come out (immediately, at least).

One should do wudu, wet one’s private parts and underwear, and pray. Then, unless absolutely certain that something actually came out, there is no need to worry.

Eid Mubarak. May Allah make our every moment a rejoicing (eid) in love and slavehood.

Walaikum assalam,
Faraz Rabbani.